Last night I got to thinking about the constant need for more, more money, more clothes, more makeup, more weight loss, more cars, bigger houses, etc. I tried to think back to when that became the norm. When did our society become so obsessed with comparing what we personally have with what everyone around us has? When did we start caring so much about everyone else? Now I'm not saying we should all become selfish and self absorbed but we should be competing with our self not each other. The person we were yesterday not the rest of the world. When did it become me vs. them? I started thinking about my grandparents, they never owned a BMW or even a brand new car, they never had a mansion and vacation home or the finest clothing. The one thing they did have though was happiness. My grandparents worked a job from the time they were 18 until the day they were able to retire at 65. They never job hopped looking for the next big break. They didn't settle for less than they deserved they were content. That my friends is the key word. CONTENT. No one seems to be content anymore, we're always looking for a way to get to the next level. What happened to the simple days when having a job that paid the bills was enough, coming home to your wife and kids, having a car that got you from point a to point b safely, having clothes to wear whether they be new or hand me down just so long as they fit. When did we become a society of more? Of bigger is better? I can't help but wonder if we are constantly looking for the next level up when will we ever be satisfied? I'm not saying that we should all settle in life, by no means, but if someone is happy working a low paying job then why should it matter? Why do we feel the need to be the best of the best to be happy? What happened to competing with our inner self instead of with the entire human race? I worry that if this is how we think now what will happen to my children? Will they be required to sell their soul to become the best? When will enough actually be enough?
Now you may think that you are content in your life with everything you have but I ask you to take this simple test. Think about one goal you have right now and then think about how you would feel if you found out your worst enemy or someone you barely knew obtained or reached that goal and you didn't. Are you angry? Jealous? Envious? Maybe a little bitter? See you've just proven my point that you're worrying so much about competing with someone else, why should it matter if someone else achieves a goal that you yourself have? As long as you are better than you were yesterday it shouldn't matter what anyone else is doing in there life.
I leave you with this quote by Theodore Roosevelt: "Comparison is the thief of joy." Stop comparing and start living!! Life is not a race!
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
GOODBYE CABO, HELLO ANTARTICA
It has been cold in Colorado!! Like -10 - Ashley has returned from Cabo and we gotta talk about her vacation. It is so good to have her back!
One of your fav ladies, Leighton Meester will be making her Broadway debut with one of Hollywood's leading men.
Actors make alot of money!! Who are the most overpaid Actors in Hollywood? We run who Forbes has listed.
You aren't going to believe what Britney Spears Loves and who she defends.
The Grammy nominations were announced and the media has said there were some surprises! We go through our favorites and our predictions for the January 26th show!
Miley Cyrus has responded to something Jennifer Lawrence said - why can't Miley just shhhhhh!
Brad Pitt has a big birthday coming up on December 18th and you won't believe what Angelina bought Brad to help him celebrate his 50th birthday.
Are you ready, Ashley? We talk about some exciting Zac Brown news for THIS WEEK!!
Let us not forget that Ashley recently got engaged. So - we thought we would share some financial tips for newly engaged couples.
Cosmo magazine has opened our eyes to something amazing - Here us talk about WINESTRAWS!!
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
He Got Down On One Knee, Now We Have A Bride To Be
After dating for ten years, Ashley’s guy finally popped the question. She is floating and we discuss the monumental occasion with the help of a special guest. Congrats to Ashley and Joey!!
The American Music Awards were Sunday night. We recap the winners of the evening and some of the not so normal occurrences.
Since Ashley is newly engaged, We felt that it might be a good idea to go over 8 things to do after you are engaged.
Don't forget Small Business Saturday 2013 - it's this Saturday! It's a day to celebrate and support small businesses and all they do for their communities. Please join the SBA and organizations across the country in supporting your local small business by shopping at a small business.
Happy Thanksgiving!! Make sure and take the day to be thankful for all of your blessings. Thank you so much for listening and supporting our show. We count all of you as a huge blessing in our lives!!
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Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Empowerment and Mouse Ears
Monday was a special day and everyone needs to celebrate this week! Join us as we celebrate the birth of a special Mouse!!
What Music Are You Listening to? We discuss what is hot on our playlist and what we should all be listening to.
Music can be empowering. There is a new song by an artist that many know that should be very empowering to all women. Which one are we talking about?
Hollywood has painted an unreal picture of what women should be and it might be time to crack that and snap back to reality.
Did you want to be a princess when you were young? There is a school that is trying to get rid of that mind set in their female students.
Who didn't want to be Cinderella, Belle, Ariel or Jasmine?! But where will that goal get you in life? That is why a Kentucky school has a campaign to squash that thinking in young girls.
Women should be taught at a young age to get educated and shape their own futures. This school has a plan to make that their focus.
Fifty Shades Update - What's the new word with the much anticipated movie?
First an actor drops out, now this... Will we ever actually be able to see Fifty Shades of Grey on the big screen?
We have been drooling over the pics that have been released for the movie and now we have to wait a little longer for the story to play out in theaters.
Janet has embraced Jamie Dornan as Christian Grey.... have you?
Valentine's Day and Fifty Shades of Grey... a nice pair. :)
Are they on the rocks or aren't they? We let you know when it comes to one of the power couples in country music.
Tim and Faith have been together for 17 years?!?! Is it still smooth sailing?
Why can't happy be a story when it comes to famous people... this couple believes it can!
Can you believe their oldest daughter, Gracie, is a junior in high school?
Ryan and Rachel – A perfect couple?! Again?
Mascara can be tricky and so we have some tips on how to master the art of those beautiful lashes.
Facebook and Photos.... what comes to mind?
Is Janet annoying with her posting?
We run down the most annoying Facebook photos to post... remember less is more.
In life and on FB let's all try to keep the cliché ones to a minimum.
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Veteran's Day, CMA's, and Parties.... Weeee!
Land of the Free, Home of the Brave
HAPPY VETERAN’s DAY 2013!! Thank you to all the women and men that have fought for our freedom!!
The CMA’s were last week. We provide our recap here. It’s our inside opinion.
Blockbuster… so sad to see you go away. The world of VHS has died and now Blockbuster… No worries… we still have Redbox.
The European Video Music Awards were Sunday and Miley did it again. Also, Katy Perry is sporting a pretty ring on that special finger. She is dating a playboy, but did she tame him?
The Hollywood starlets are chopping their hair. We talk about Jennifer Aniston and Jennifer Lawrence.. Why would they do it?
Would you let your man take your name when you get married? One musician did and then he had to drop it… what took him so long?
Parties… parties… parties… We go over the stages of partying through different ages.
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Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Gym, Tan, Laundry turns into Diapers, Bottles and Teething Rings #babymamadrama
We are so happy to announce that our show can now be heard on iHeart radio. Here is a link to last week's show - http://www.iheart.com/#/talk/show/23938004/?episode_id=23938124
From Jackass comes Bad Grandpa. This new movie has taken over the box office this week. Did you see it? What did you think?
Janet has started watching Orange is the New Black. She has good stuff to say about it. Julianne Hough is also a fan and dressed up as one of her favorite characters for Halloween and now she is in hot water. We think it's ridiculous!!
Finally... again... the powers that be have chosen someone to play Christian Grey in the much anticipated Fifty Shades of Grey. Are we excited... are you excited?
The CMA's are next week and some more performers have been announced. We are so excited!! Nov. 6th.... don't forget to set your DVR.
#hashtags #are #Taking #over - which hash tags need to stop NOW?!?!
www.twogirlsandabottleofwine.podbean.com
From Jackass comes Bad Grandpa. This new movie has taken over the box office this week. Did you see it? What did you think?
Janet has started watching Orange is the New Black. She has good stuff to say about it. Julianne Hough is also a fan and dressed up as one of her favorite characters for Halloween and now she is in hot water. We think it's ridiculous!!
Finally... again... the powers that be have chosen someone to play Christian Grey in the much anticipated Fifty Shades of Grey. Are we excited... are you excited?
The CMA's are next week and some more performers have been announced. We are so excited!! Nov. 6th.... don't forget to set your DVR.
#hashtags #are #Taking #over - which hash tags need to stop NOW?!?!
www.twogirlsandabottleofwine.podbean.com
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